First Love vs second Love
How on earth can someone explain in mere words, the world’s most complex biological phenomenon? Where to start with… the chemistry or the physics or the point of realization that here it comes, your first love. The real magic of first love is the tragedy that one believes it won’t ever end, but mostly in the materialistic and opportunistic world of today well it does. That’s when one wanders in the streets alone, low, looking for someone to talk to, to be with, to share a part of your grief but no one comes and that loneliness changes to despair, and then starts the quest, when time ,the biggest healer heals you ,makes your skin thicker and makes you tougher that’s when you think you don’t need love, another lie, hence you fall in love again, because as long as a person is living so is his hope whether he denies or accepts the fact, then comes the second love with new hopes, new reasons to smile, new things to look forward to.
When a child is born he biologically falls in love with the parents, with blooming age from adolescence to puberty and from puberty to adulthood he/she feels a biologically natural need of loving someone and being loved in return, the first person who accepts you as who you are, likes you for who you are, loves to be with you spends days and days with you and still never feels boredom is the one you fall in love with for the very first time in your life, when a mere touch bring shivers to your whole body, mere sight of that person make butterflies flutter in your tummy, we have all heard about the magic of first love, the smell in the air, the music in the breeze, the warm glow on your face, sleepless nights …all are signs of first love.
Second love is a desperate quest of an adult when the magic of first love fades away; another quest starts as it is need of a person to have someone by his/her side a partner in life! A second hope a second love, a new wish, be it true love fighting to be happy, a second chance in life, striving to get better after learning from previous mistakes that’s what second love is.
First love is what poets write about, all those ballads and mystical poems, first love is what writers write about, what Disney taught us. Fairy tales of Cinderella and snow white. Second love is reality more towards a practical life, a smart decision maybe a better one, but first love can never heal, they say it is human nature to find alternative for everything might be true, true love doesn’t have to be the first and only the first one, when you find the right person you just know, a sound sleep, a peaceful heart, feeling of commitment that’s true love, be it second, third or fourth, doesn’t matter. Love matters. True love matters